Be the change you want to see in the world.
Lately, I’ve seen so many examples of the youth leading the way. You seem to have it figured out so much better than us “mature” adults….at least in some areas.
So today’s advice is to honor you and the wisdom that you have to offer the rest of us.
We live in a world of intolerance. Kids your age don’t think that is ok. You see the screaming adults on news channels and nasty campaign ads on TV and divisive rhetoric on the internet and you respond with head shakes (thanks for telling me what SMH means) and with tolerance. The only thing you seem to be INtolerant of is… intolerance. When a gay friend comes out publicly, youth respond with overwhelming kindness, support and love. We all need to learn from that. When you want the world to be more tolerant, bring tolerance to the world.
When you think the world has forgotten what friendship means, respond by showing the world what true friendship looks like.
When you think that people aren’t accepting of others, show the world what acceptance looks like.
When you think that Christians are giving Christianity a bad name, show the world what you believe it means to be a Christian.
Adults talk a lot of talk. We complain and rant about what is wrong with the world, but we can’t seem to do much to change it. We judge people for their judgmental-ness. We pick sides. We wag our tongues and whisper in corners. We say one thing and demonstrate by our actions that we mean another. If we want to change the world, we simply have to look at youth.
I know that none of this is perfect and that kids are bullied and can be incredibly mean sometimes. But what I see more than that is a culture of acceptance. I see kids reaching out to kids who have a different race, religion and sexual orientation. I see them fight for the less fortunate and fight for the rights of others. They show the world what it could be while we sit back and talk about it.
To all of us, follow the example of my beautiful daughters and the young people out there and be the change that you want to see in the world.
Just as I finished writing this blog, I got a message from a boy who recently came out publicly. He was thanking me for supporting him even though I didn’t know him. He heard about my Facebook status last night where I told the world that I was proud of the kids that supported him. He made me cry. I say this not to toot my own horn, but to reinforce the points that I have made here. He told me that it wasn’t the support of his family and friends that meant so much because he KNEW he would get that. What he didn’t expect was support from people who he didn’t know. And he is getting that too. Both of these things are remarkable…that we have come to a place where a young man can feel confident that he will be accepted by his friends and family is so different from what I have seen for previous generations. But it is also striking that what he expected from the rest of the world was intolerance. At least he has been pleasantly surprised. The youth is indeed going to change the world.
Joy, You were there when I came out 20 something years ago and remember the drama and support I went through. Seeing young people coming today and being celebrating and rallied for is wonderful. I look forward to the next step in the next twenty years when young people simply state their sexual orientation in the same manner they say their hair color and people won’t have to rally around or support somebody because it just is.
Believe me, it is because of your experience that this is so striking to me. And I do think that there will be a day when that next step happens…maybe it is closer than we think. It will be if these kids have anything to say about it! 🙂
truly inspiring – both the letter to your daughters and the fact that you support kids who need it
Thank you, but it is the kids who are inspiring. 🙂
that is why you are you – Joy, take some credit girl
Joy. Your posts are just wonderful.
Thank you. 🙂